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Old 09-04-2012, 09:59 AM   #8
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Originally Posted by funkyfemme View Post

Thank you so much and yeah, totally makes sense!!

I so hear ya on staying in the moment. I don't want to get overly confident either cause I've been there, done that and failed miserably! I really don't like counting the days but then I do. I'm just being careful, present and ENJOYING not smoking. I'm also constantly thinking about situations that may cause me to smoke and staying one step ahead. I wonder when that will cease. Eh, I'm just gonna keep working this and stay strong. I'm glad this space is here and it's good to know I'm not alone in this.

Your definately not alone..smiles
And this thread actually helped me to stay honest to myself. Ha!

I plan and prepare so that smoking people do not effect me as much.
In time that grows easier but I can not say that it goes away altogether.
I used to use other stuff and though it is very few and far between,
some remnants of that creep in on a whim..You just have to breathe, exhale and walk on with your chin held high.


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