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I think there is a time and a place for everything. I think touch is very important but I don't want to be sweaty doing it.
A hug in passing, a slight touch of the arm, butt, etc., putting your hand on the small of her back or a kiss are all nice ways to be affectionate without going overboard.
In bed, if your are cuddling and you get hot, nothing wrong with putting space between the two of you. Even just an outreached hand against the back or feet touching or something like that is nice as well.
I just think it's a good thing to show affection, to be close in that way. Does not in any way mean I want to smother anyone nor do I want to be smothered either.
There are times when either one of you don't want to be touched. It's good to pay attention to body language.
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