I agree that it is usually best to focus on what we do rather than what we don't do. Sometimes, though, it turns into some good discussion. On the discussion of non-packing, many butches have been told or made to feel they are less than if they don't pack. When there is discussion about it, it is clear many butches do not. I do think it is far overstated online in terms of packing being the norm for butches. There is also nothing wrong with those that do pack. Either way is fine.
No one should divulge personal stuff they aren't comfortable with, no matter who the OP is. This is a public forum.
Great post Sparkle!
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Last edited by BullDog; 09-10-2012 at 03:02 PM.
Reason: packing not binding
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