[Medusa]

I just love all the suggestions and hints coming from folks!

I will second what Nadeest said about making the effort. I think sometimes that just knowing someone has made an effort for you is a huge turn-on. Knowing that they care what you think. Putting forth the energy to do a little extra.

Confidence is super sexy. Even if you don't wear a corset or something lacy, own your space by squaring your shoulders and throwing your head back. Don't hunch over as if you are trying to keep them from seeing your body. Look her directly in the eye.
Smile.
Tell her with your eyes that you are the sexiest woman in the world and she better worship you properly.

However you do it, do it with confidence. You can never go wrong with that.