Wooohoooo!!! I actually had luck tonight finding shoes that had a little heel on them, that I could wear! Naturalizer - who knew! and they were on sale! And they're cute! I got some tights to wear with the outfit I got last weekend, mostly on sale from Torrid - how did I not know about them?!?
This community, in this thread and in the thread I started, asking about casual fall date outfits, has been a huge help - thanks!