maybe just run an ad on craigslist
for platonic friends (butch and femme)?
I have thought of doing so
as I have a huge void where my best friend
of 28 years passed away a few years ago.
but she was a tweener (andro, whatevah)
who not only understood me and all my quirks
but knew exactly what my type was / is,
was always supportive and never questioned it or me.
The best friend evah!

So, I'm not sure I would even put the butch or
femme part in there in terms of friendships.
things that make you go hmmm