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Dance-with-me · 09-29-2012, 01:42 AM

Just read some of the past few pages, and wanted to comment on the distance/moving issue.

I have seen it work for someone to move literally halfway around the world (CA to Finland, to be exact) to be with somebody that they had spent little time with in person. But I really think that that's the exception.

I'm 53, have a great job that would be hard to replace, have a pension with that job which is almost impossible to find these days (and at my age in this economy, that's priceless), and my grands (who I've raised/helped praise for most of their lives) live here and I'm not willing to move a long distance away from them.

Unfortunately for me there are basically no known single butchs/Transguys/FTMs in this area. I could date someone from the Philadelphia, Baltimore, or DC areas and only be a couple hours away, but that's still becomes a big issue if we would end up getting serious and want to start living together.

I know that this can become an issue even if you live in a big city, but when you're in a much smaller area, you really run out of choices fast.

09-29-2012, 01:42 AM	#803
Dance-with-me Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: earth Posts: 419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 264 Thanked 1,926 Times in 378 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Just read some of the past few pages, and wanted to comment on the distance/moving issue. I have seen it work for someone to move literally halfway around the world (CA to Finland, to be exact) to be with somebody that they had spent little time with in person. But I really think that that's the exception. I'm 53, have a great job that would be hard to replace, have a pension with that job which is almost impossible to find these days (and at my age in this economy, that's priceless), and my grands (who I've raised/helped praise for most of their lives) live here and I'm not willing to move a long distance away from them. Unfortunately for me there are basically no known single butchs/Transguys/FTMs in this area. I could date someone from the Philadelphia, Baltimore, or DC areas and only be a couple hours away, but that's still becomes a big issue if we would end up getting serious and want to start living together. I know that this can become an issue even if you live in a big city, but when you're in a much smaller area, you really run out of choices fast.