I talked with a dog trainer this past week. He told me specifics on what I need to do. My female mixed bully acted the ass last Sunday at a park festival for dogs. Found out she is terribly aggressive and hostile towards other dogs. It was scary. I unhooked the lease coupler. My friend took my other dog, Kevin. A toddler could walk him. We left in thirty minutes. I am a strong person but I was totally worn out - especially my back, arms and shoulders.
Kelly is loving and affectionate towards people. And it is a blessing she loves Kevin. Kevin is a gentle giant mastiff-bully mix and twice the weight of Kelly. Not tall but massive. Kevin worships Kelly. He has a "whatever" personality, is happy and well-behaved regardless of circumstances. He always immediately does anything I ask of him. We are so lucky to have Kevin. His disposition blends perfectly with Kelly's.
This has been heavy on my mind since last Sunday. The trainer told me it will take a long time and probably the improvement will not be 100% but can be a great deal better. Scott said I must be consistent and patient over this long haul. I'm willing. I want us to be a happy family unit at the dog events. No one had fun last Sunday.
We'll get it worked out.