[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Because there is no transguy or queer single thread.

I know some of you know me or have seen me around some of the threads this year but for those that do not I thought a little intro was in order. Especially since I change my avatar and about me on a regular basses..like when I am bored.

My name is Alix, I am 45, and very single but not looking to settle for just anyone. I am okay with being single just no longer wish to be. I am not a FTM, I fall more into what one thread on here called the "Bravehearts". A TG guy that can not or choose not to transition. I am also a Top/Dom/Daddy even though I do not use the BDSM avatar and my about me does not say it...at this present moment.
The most important thing and or quality a person can have is respect whether they are my friend or that special someone that caught my eye. All else develops from respect and time in my opinion.

I did read some of last years conversation on relocating. Since I live in the middle of the country and everyone seems to be to the left or right of me this is something I have put a great deal of thought into. I have done and have been successful in LDR. The successful ones I did relocate for that person but not until a lot had taken place. One of which was time and considerable communication. One is real time together. The length of real time before I relocated is not set in stone and with the advent and popularity of Skype will vary. (I need more Skype friends and I was referring to non sexual Skype btw). So the question is not will I relocate but will make me relocate? To answer that I would have to say many things would and one of them would be my ability to answer the "what if" question. What if it does not work? Since I am getting older and already know I do not want to live in my hometown anymore the answer to my what if question will determine if I can take the relocate step. Relocate does not equal move in...two different questions.

Well I tend to be long winded and ramble a lot when I am nervous, so if you would like to no more feel free to post here, on my wall, or send me a message.

Now where are all the singles that like a guy like me? I know your out there!!!