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PinkieLee · 10-08-2012, 09:48 AM

Some things I have learned and continue to learn every single day....

#1 rule... you've gotta love yourself before you can love anyone else! YOU have to be happy with you ~ no one can do that for you!

Communication... say what you mean and mean what you say. No passive aggressive or mindreading bullshit, tell me what you want/need.

Speak up when something is bothering you! Even if you think it's small or petty, those little things can add up quick in your head and you start feeling resentful.

Having hobbies outside of the relationship. Just because I don't like to golf, doesn't mean she should give it up. And I won't drag her to any jewelry making classes

We are all individuals with likes and dislikes... we should embrace that!

10-08-2012, 09:48 AM	#109
PinkieLee Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: I need ya boo, gotta see ya boo Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Big Money Texas Posts: 4,708 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,309 Thanked 13,074 Times in 3,049 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Some things I have learned and continue to learn every single day.... #1 rule... you've gotta love yourself before you can love anyone else! YOU have to be happy with you ~ no one can do that for you! Communication... say what you mean and mean what you say. No passive aggressive or mindreading bullshit, tell me what you want/need. Speak up when something is bothering you! Even if you think it's small or petty, those little things can add up quick in your head and you start feeling resentful. Having hobbies outside of the relationship. Just because I don't like to golf, doesn't mean she should give it up. And I won't drag her to any jewelry making classes We are all individuals with likes and dislikes... we should embrace that!