stare decisis
Be mindful of every precedent set early on when you're distracted by the newness, because they all become part of the relationship's foundation.
Only take responsibility for your own part in things, because once you take responsibility for the other person's piece you've then set a precedent and they'll expect you to do it forever. I hate to compare a relationship to a legal case, but there can be some sad similarities between the two, and anyone who's been on trial within their relationship knows what I mean.
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