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10-10-2012, 05:18 AM

If it's on only via the internet then it's not real. Took me a few months to realise this one way back in the day when I started on the internet and it still holds true a decade later.

Don't seek validation by being in relation to another.

Don't allow anyone to think you're a mind-reader and don't expect them to have that talent either.

Don't neglect your own friends.

I know it might be different for you lot over there with yer vast country but here in UK I would say:

Don't move your life and leave your friends before you've spent a year or so together in real time when only you live a couple of hundred miles apart.......................not personally done this one but I've seen (and been support for those who have done it) far, far too many times. It's the triumph of hope over reality. It's a rare to learn from others mistakes but boy did I on this one.

10-10-2012, 05:18 AM	#6
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	If it's on only via the internet then it's not real. Took me a few months to realise this one way back in the day when I started on the internet and it still holds true a decade later. Don't seek validation by being in relation to another. Don't allow anyone to think you're a mind-reader and don't expect them to have that talent either. Don't neglect your own friends. I know it might be different for you lot over there with yer vast country but here in UK I would say: Don't move your life and leave your friends before you've spent a year or so together in real time when only you live a couple of hundred miles apart.......................not personally done this one but I've seen (and been support for those who have done it) far, far too many times. It's the triumph of hope over reality. It's a rare to learn from others mistakes but boy did I on this one.