The original issue was not forever. The issue was blatant flirting a month or two after a long-term relationship. I don't personally look at it as "begrudging".
My perspective is a little more sensitivity or "gentleness" as June called it towards someone that had not yet healed as the breakup was so fresh.
I asked for feedback and knew that there were going to be differing opinions.
Forever would be just plain dumb!
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Originally Posted by gaea
Also id like to say .....as femme's
Who are we to begrudge an "ex" a possible connection and or "date" and or "flirting"
I would not want to be denied that ability Im sure as heck not going to deny anyone else that especially an "ex", people become exe's for various reasons and what not's, does that mean then that NEITHER one should ever date just because they may know someone who knows someone who knows someone else?
I guess Im just living in reality as well as a very small B/F community.
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