[princessbelle]

Originally Posted by gaea

I have been reading the last few pages wow how one topic can pose so many different questions....So I have one of my own now this is theoretical and or hypothetical so keep that in mind and I will use letters to represent person's...

Persons A & B are in a relationship that lasts less than 1 year and they break up.

Person A begins dating several people up to an including sex etc.

Person B is seen at a party flirting with Person C who does not know person A at all

so here is my question

Does person C owe "femme" code to person A because they happen to be at the same party? if so why?

Does person A at any time owe anything to person B? Owe them anything? I'm not understanding.

Considering Person A is dating/flirting/ having sexual relations with another and or many others.

Who owes what to whom in this scenario and why?

You say person C and person A don't know each other? Is there a secret "code" just because they are femmes? I, personally, would say heck no, of course not. C doesn't know A therefore there is no need to back off and not go forward and likewise C doesn't know A therefore does not owe C an explanation or warning to tell he/she to steer clear for whatever reason. I mean, it ended with A and B. There has to be a reason. It works both ways in my opinion.

Example...
I would say if i was around one of Bully's exes i would not flaunt our relationship. But that is not code. IMO it's just class, politeness and just how i roll and my personal preference. And i would not expect one of her exes to call me up and tell me she eats stray kittens. Neither have the responsibility of getting into each other's life. But, respect at least? I think so, again, just my opinion. But i think respect is what we should show everyone, until it is stepped on. So, again, that's just how i roll.

My vision of all of this is from my *me* space and posting here, i have referred to my VERY close femme friends. My TIGHT, VERY few that i would never cross a line on and date one of their exes.

IMO and from where i am coming from, it's just respect and honor of those VERY CLOSE friendship. Simple.