Don't....
Be afraid to ask questions before making life changing decisions
Be willing to move somewhere you dislike to please someone else.
Give up your own needs trying to get them from the other person.
Allow the other person to assume they "know" you...they most likely do not know who you truly are, & don't assume you know them.
Lie about anything...not who you are, what you want, what's important to you, what IS ok & what isn't...but mainly don't ever lie to yourself.
My favorite saying is: If it never got any better than it is RIGHT now.....is it good enough? If you can't answer yes....then you better be examining why & making some decisions for yourself...cause, NOW is all any of us truly have.
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