I think the not knowing is the most fun.
If more than crushing was desired;
there would be some speaking up going on up in here!
Big girl panties or big boi boxers...take your pick
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner