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Old 10-24-2012, 06:55 PM   #7
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Originally Posted by CherylNYC View Post
Whatever happened to asking around? You must know someone who knows her, or a friend would know someone who knows someone. That's how we've always done it. You can and should ask your contact if she's single before you ask for a date.
Alas, I tried to figure out anyone we might have in common and can't come up with anyone who knows her.

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I'm not so sure that asking if she considers herself butch would be productive if you live in a place where most people just don't understand what that means, but you can gauge that based on who you're asking. Good luck.
Yeah, this I basically figured after writing about it for a bit. But again, this is what I figure a skirt and cleavage will tell me.


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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme View Post
Dear DWM.
You are volunteering with her, not working for her, so it's totally cool.
It's awesome because it gives you more time to talk and get to know each other and send mutual sparks.
Your energy is radiant and you know how to flirt. If you get to chatting more now that the coals are heating up and you want more, I say you make sure you let yourself be known. One of you will make the first move. Unless she's otherwise occupied, and in that case it's sad. But not the only one out there for you by a long shot.
Again, big issue is how do I find a way to make more time? Because right now there's no easy way to create more in-person contact - it would have to be contrived, or I'd have to suck it up and just ask her to have lunch or meet or talk or whatever. (ack!)


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(And I like, never, squee)
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