[Girl_On_Fire]

I read Stephen's response earlier today and it brought tears to my eyes. He's incredibly intelligent and thoughtful, even if he processes information more slowly.

I often struggled with learning problems and social issues when I was a child and young adult and never could quite figure out what was wrong with me. 5 years ago, in a fit of frustration after a misunderstanding with a co-worker, I Googled, "Why do I take EVERYTHING literally?" I found Asperger's syndrome.

It took me months of studying to determine whether or not the symptoms applied to me and they do. Once I realized that my brain actually works differently than most of the people around me, I was able to figure out how to tell people to talk to me and warn them that I might act unusual around them and may not be able to read their non-verbal cues. It was incredibly validating and explained so much. I don't see it as a disability although sometimes it drives me (and others) crazy. Sometimes it can be an asset.

Though I make it look easy, everyday social interaction can be quite challenging for me. So is carrying things without dropping them and splitting my attention between cooking and someone speaking to me. (I hate that.) lol! I can't deal with interruptions or the unexpected but both are part of everyday life. I've just learned to handle it as best I can.

I also have gluten intolerance and autoimmune issues but, again, you learn to adapt.

I think a large part of dealing with any type of disability or health problem is having the right attitude and staying as positive as possible.

Great thread topic!