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Old 10-26-2012, 02:36 PM   #272
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Originally Posted by BrutalDyke View Post
Would like to add one more thing if I may.

It can get hard for me sometimes because if I go to a place/subdivision where it is exclusively about femmes (as example) then I will post about femmes and leave out the rest of the rainbow, so to speak. If someone gets all pissy because I left out a group then I see that as being on them. Not me. I am visiting a "subdivision" that is all about the femmes. If I visit a "subdivision" that's about the FTMs then I'll post about them and usually them alone. Same goes for female ided butches, etc.


yes. this was my original thought too. i'm not excluding anyone. i'm commenting on the topic at hand
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I live in a world that is too politically correct for my taste so when I come here, I try to make damn sure that where I'm posting (the subdivision) is exclusive to that part of the rainbow. If I try to include everyone, I'll spend all damn day typing and more inlikely forget someone. Lol. While I know and understand exclusion, I don't see it as such considering it's about a specific group and not the rainbow as a whole.

yes. it's exhausting to worry about who's going to be pissed because i didnt include them. it's equally maddening to find that there's an assumption that i'm doing something purposely when i've simply made a mistake or a misstep.


So Nomad, thank you for your post because it brought that thought up and wanted to share it. Thanks.


Food For Thought,
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and thanks for sharing your thoughts. i appreciate your clearer version of my own scattered and somewhat whiny post
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