The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire
QUESTIONNAIRE
PART I - General Info
Real Name (first only): Jaime
Age: 32
Astrological Sign: Saggitarius
Birth Date: 29th
Location: Connecticut
Height: 5'3"
Eye Color: Blue
Hair Color: Blonde
Piercings - how many & where: None
Tattoos - how many & where: None
Cat person or dog person: Cat
Job: Writer
What do you like about your job?: Writing, promoting
What do you loathe about your job?: Editing, taxes
Favorite books / authors: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, James Patterson
Favorite bands/musicians: Tori Amos, Pink, Linkin Park, The Cranberries, Depeche Mode
Favorite movies: Labryrinth, Legend, Halloween (1978), The Strangers
Favorite websites: ButchFemmePlanet, CuteOverload, DamnYouAutoCorrect, Facebook
Favorite TV shows: Hot in Cleveland, The Client List
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate please
A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Talk to myself
What is your pet peeve: People chewing noisily
Favorite curse word: Fuck
Favorite magazine: Don't read magazines
A culture that intrigues you: Native American
Do you like to dance? LOVE to dance
If you could change a law which would it be? Oh my. Just one?
Do you collect anything? I used to collect rocks but I left them in North Carolina
If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't know
Would you ever have plastic surgery? Not unless I got mangled in a car wreck
Your idea of a good meal: Anything home cooked and gluten free
If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Hmmmm
Introvert or extrovert: Introvert
Dream profession: Writer
What are your Hobbies: Hiking, reading
Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Bees and highways
Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Oh yes. I'm an old soul.
What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, my eyes, my boobs lol!
What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It's very delicate and sensitive and allergic to everything
If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End poverty. Universal health care (with no strings attached). No discrimination, everybody lives equally.
If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I'm not sure
Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I'm a spiritualist
Do you generally feel understood? No, not at all
Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Without hesitation
Biggest concern about aging: Losing control
What were you like in high school? Geeky, quiet, terrified
Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? It used to be...
Issues that you feel most passionate about: Bullying, equal rights
The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My aunt's
PART II: Love/Sexuality
Sexual orientation: Queer femme
How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Queer femme
Current relationship status: Single
What you look for in a partner: A strong, patient, calm person with a good heart and a spiritual side. Somebody with intellect and a sense of humor. Confidence and a take-charge attitude in the bedroom is a must.
The "type" of person you tend to attract: I tend to attract needy, clingy bois but I need to stop
Number of times you've been in love: Madly, completely, and totally committed? Twice.
What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How intense it is
Monogamy or polyamory: I'm on the fence about that
Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Yeah. Lemme skip that.
Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes
Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes. It was trying but yes.
Age when you had your first kiss: Boy: 14 Butch: 22
Describe your best kiss: I've had a few good kisses. The best is always the one where someone completely takes me over.
Describe your last kiss: Painful. Lots of tears.
What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Arms, Butt
What trait in a woman turns you off?: Being clingy, obsessive
PART III: SEX
The last person who saw you naked: Her
What are you self-conscious about naked? My stomach. I'm thin but it's not flat.
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Lights off please
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Pulled that clump of hair at the crown of my head, bit me, held me down
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Hesitating, stopping, being uncertain
Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Yes, a few
Do you have any Fetishes: Yes
Name your fetishes: I like to suckle ears, I love being held down, I love being bitten
Leather - yes or no?: Yes, in my fantasies (It hasn't quite become a reality yet)
BDSM - yes or no?: I'm open
Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes and I regret it
How often do you masturbate? Um...yeah. Skip!
Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? That's my secret
