In these instances it is best to PM one of the mods and let us know if you are having issues with a specific member and why. We can then look at the situation, see if your concern sounds warranted, and try to find a way to help. For example, take a hypothetical:
A and B broke up. A and B are both complaining about each other. "A visits my page all the time." "B writes about me all the time" (etc. etc.) On a case by case basis, we might instruct (not a choice) both A and B to place each other on ignore, not even indirectly write about one another, and not visit one another's pages or make contact on the site in any way. If A or B violates this, then there are consequences.
The important thing to remember is that if you bring an issue to us, it becomes our decision what to do with it and more often than not this involves both members in conflict having the same rules imposed upon them with the same consequences imposed if either breaks the rules. So it's important to first consider whether it feels serious enough to you to bring to our attention.
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Originally Posted by *Anya*
Question:
I can have John Smith on ignore and I don't have to see John Smith's posts but John Smith can regularly "visit" my visitor page and be listed as one of the 10 (daily) most recent visitors to my page.
Nothing can be done about that, I am assuming?
Thanks.
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