Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?: She, her
Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
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Since I have been doing a bit of dating the last 6-8 weeks, I am more than happy to share my success stories as well as my not-so-successful stories.
I always meet first for coffee. I like having my car in case it does not turn out well and I always pay for myself.
Even though I never say yes without reading profiles first, one never knows what one will find.
The most stable appearing people may not be so much in person. I never let anyone know where I live until I have that first meeting for coffee and never if I don't want to see them again.
I have downed a cup in 30 minutes (when I knew it was not going to work) and have taken 2-hours (when I thought there was potential).
It's kind of like a job interview....disguised as a date.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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