I would just send him a pic. I know that fear though. lol. It's easier said then done. It always seems to be the people who aren't "all that" that have the highest standards too. Not sure why that is....don't let someone dictate what you should or shouldn't be. You are fine just how you are and really if you are worried just take a pic without make up or your hair done, in jeans and shirt - then just send it. I personally hate being compared to people on tv or movies. I am not a supermodel - in fact even supermodels aren't supermodels. Tyra Banks said that if it weren't for air brushing she wouldn't look as good as she does on the cover of magazines. It's an impossible standard that as women, we feel we need to live up to. It pisses me off actually. Everyone has things they don't like about themselves. I'm sure hy has his own insecurities. If he rejects you for a scar or your weight then he wasn't worth your time to begin with. I hope it works out for you though. It's hard to find people you really connect with in this world.
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