I don't understand what you mean about opposite gender. I will guess maybe you mean friends that do not ID as you do perhaps?
Anyway, personally, i have a few very close butch friends. We talk on the phone, on messenger, text, ect.
Bully is fine with it. Why wouldn't she be. She respects me and i respect her.
Bully has femme friends as well. I think it's great!!!!
Life is too complicated to complicate what should just be simple. IMO why in the world should it matter how anyone IDs if you want them as a friend.
A friend is a friend.
That's how i see it anyway.
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