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Originally Posted by Ringlets
Thank you all for your posts!!!!
We met and he thought I was pretty. Just getting through the fear was all I could manage. Hy really is a great guy but I think he might be too old fashioned for me afterall. Hy was very polite and even held doors, but I got the feeling that in person he expected me to be more wife like. I think there was chemistry and we are talking about it. I'm a little nervous because I don't want someone to control my every waking step! I don't want to be expected to cook and clean. I got that impression. Hy acted offended when I offered to walk his dog after hy slightly twisted hys ankle when we were at the park. That sounds stupid but he said to me that it was "his" job. I'm not sure what he meant. like if walking the dog was hys job or if it was because it was hys dog.
I did like him and thought he was much cuter in person. I guess I'll have to wait and see what happens.
Thank you all for your help.
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ten yrs isnt that great a gap, if yoo u like him might i suggest you chat about things because im an old fashioned kinda guy who opens doors and a lot of femmes expect and enjoy these things - maybe he thinks its what you want as he doesnt know you yet. My missus always wanted to do the traditional, so called womens stuff, cooking, cleaning etc and i do the jobs round the house, diy, garden, car and so on - being as its what we both enjoy, it works, but its not for everyone so, give him a chance and tell him politely what works for you - best of luck GJ