[Soft*Silver]

Originally Posted by Sachita

IBut the key Softness is finding the right partner who shares your dreams. I always said that I would marry the person I garden with.

me too! I am so tired of being the one who is out there, sowing the seeds, transplanting, setting up the rows, watering, making fert soup, etc..etc..etc...while they think just cuz they rototilled they did their part! The real garden is in the journey to the harvest, not in the start of the soil! I think symbolically, and literally, I need someone who wants to do the active part of gardening so the harvest is truly "ours"

I also said i would marry the person who helped me have horses. I dont think I can anymore, but I do want someone who will try to fill that need somehow...

again, its part of that slow dance, that knows how to lead because they know where I will follow...