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Canela · 12-01-2012, 08:36 PM

I learned that lies of omission are still lies.
I've learned to cut my losses, no matter how difficult.
I've learned to think/see thru the facade.
I've learned that if I'm expected to make sacrifices to be with him, he should be willing to make some too.
I've learned to value myself by the same standard (or better than) he had for himself.
I've learned to let go.
I've learned that not everyone is who they portray themselves to be, online and in real time.
I've learned to take responsibility for my part in things and be honest about it.
I've learned not everyone thinks like me regarding all the above.

12-01-2012, 08:36 PM	#166
Canela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babe, she, her, ella Relationship Status: Well loved… Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 2,375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,643 Thanked 6,505 Times in 1,694 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I learned that lies of omission are still lies. I've learned to cut my losses, no matter how difficult. I've learned to think/see thru the facade. I've learned that if I'm expected to make sacrifices to be with him, he should be willing to make some too. I've learned to value myself by the same standard (or better than) he had for himself. I've learned to let go. I've learned that not everyone is who they portray themselves to be, online and in real time. I've learned to take responsibility for my part in things and be honest about it. I've learned not everyone thinks like me regarding all the above. __________________ . . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne