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			 Senior Member 
			
			
 How Do You Identify?:  Alpha Femme 
Preferred Pronoun?:  Goddess 
Relationship Status:  Completely in love 
			
			
				 
				Join Date: Nov 2009 
				Location: Southern Virginia 
				
				
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			Everyone has their own definition of what real love is. My idea of relationship is different from someone else. We all require something different. But I do believe in order for a relationship to fully mature you must be in the same space. You can build, learn and nurture long distance.  
 
That one episode of Catfish where she had been doing it for 10 years was sad and ridiculous. Personally if someone can't see me within 3 months then they aren't trying hard enough. I'm just not going to invest a year of my life hoping something comes of it. I know that some people have declined dating me because I could not ever consider relocating- I have the farm, my business and my granddaughter. But the right circumstances could present and the reality is I could. I could move my business and hopefully relocate my family. Tho this is pretty unlikely. 
 
But if we met and spent time together and all the magic is there then you make things happen.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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				You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. 
~ Daniel Franzese 
			 
		
		
		
		
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