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Originally Posted by GraffitiBoi
I'm confused by what you mean when you say 'you haven't met in real life.' Online/phone/skype are real life. They are just not physically in person. They are all still very much real. If we were discussing meeting someone on an MMORPG and only knowing the character they portray, then yes, I would say you haven't met them in real life. The reason I say they are real is because several years ago I traveled for work. A lot. I was out of the country on business 3 out of every 4 weeks each month. The only way I could have a relationship was through online or phone contact. And I did.
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Easily confused or playing semantics I'm not sure which.
However, by real life, I mean experienced some time together in close physical proximity (that doesn't mean sex, just in case you are confused again).
A working relationship is vastly different to an emotional, one-on-one relationship. Your question surely wasn't about maintaining communication? Rather, it was about falling in love. Those attributes are vastly different to functional workplace communication.
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Originally Posted by GraffitiBoi
But I can love someone whom I have not yet had the pleasure of physically meeting.
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So can I i.e. I loved my young nephew from the day he was born and I first saw his photo, even if I didn't meet him for some months. However, that's not falling in live.
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Originally Posted by GraffitiBoi
But I still maintain that being in love does not rely on being physically present with the person.
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That's fine and I agree with this. However, I equally maintain that no one can fall in love, at least not in a healthy manner, with someone they haven't met.
Might be a strong crush or an obsession but I don't see it as love.