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					Originally Posted by  Prudence
					 
				 
				I just visited this site a couple days ago.. I came away with a feeling of sadness. I saw an honest question, picked apart and attacked. I have to say it was done with court room precision. The beautiful art (to some) of leaving someone second guessing their own truths and beliefs. Using a play on words. "love", "in love"---wow.. someone came to this thread, clearly emotional about what was happening to them, and reached out . Be it semantics or confusion , I feel it was wrongfully handled. There is no right or wrong way to fall in love. It is an individual as we all are. I have to wonder whats really going on with the person inside who wants to rip at another. How does this one really feel about him/her self.  I see this as insecurity at the most intense level. Sad really. 
			
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That's so true! (part I bolded)
What I've been hearing is that people have what they consider optimal ways of falling in love, contexts they trust more than others.
It seems to vary.