[girl_dee]

Originally Posted by IslandScout

Good questions for ANY relatonship.

Yup and how much of each other did you see before the move in? i believe wholeheartedly that couples that have jumped too soon, tend to hang on for a long while after one or both knows it was a mistake. Too much invested to just undo it. So hanging on until there is no other option happens.

It is expensive, so if you see someone now and then, it's always a honeymoon. That sure is fun but not a basis for a lifetime of real life, and the investment involved with uprooting or having someone come into your home that you truly have only seen a handful of times. IMO.

i know it happens, the ones who beat the odds and it works. But i feel it's very uncommon