the two times I moved across the united states to couple with someone, both times the people did not have the awareness of what I was going thru, like Boots talked about.
It takes a very mature and non egocentric person to understand that just because someone is in a relationship with them, the other per son's world doesn't revolve solely around just them.
and sometimes after doing and LDR, by the time you move intogether, it can FEEL that way, because you organize your time around each other's schedule to talk on the internet, the phone, skype, etc whenever possible to compensate for not being able to be there in person.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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