Hi all!
I am looking forward to traipsing around the community. I have been looking for a place just like this, so I am very happy to be here. I live in Maine and there is little gay community here; I am sure there are many folks in the closet, but those doors are pretty firmly shut.
Many minds, like stores and restaurants in Maine during the winter, are closed.
This site, however, seems like a rather active community; others I came upon had tumbleweeds rolling through.
I am 40, and have lived most of my life disinterested in butch-femme dynamics. I was under the misunderstanding that such a dynamic implied an implicit inequality. However, I have been pleasantly "schooled" this year and am so appreciative of the education. I feel like an entirely new world is open to me and that's enticing, titillating, mind-bending and endlessly fascinating.
I only wish I had more women in my life to explore the B/F dynamic with; hopefully I will meet some people here willing to become friends.
A lifelong reader and lover of words, I am a writer, editor and teacher. I have also been in corporate sales, a nanny, sold running shoes, "bussed" celebrity parties, and took a stint in educational administration.
Enough about me.
I'd love to know more about you all. Any tips for getting involved and making the most out of using this site?
Thank you!
