i'm single again after 9.5 years and i don't have a clue what to do next.. i know jumping right into a new serious relationship isn't a swell idea...but i would like to date..maybe..kinda..if i was sure what that meant..i'd like someone to go to dinner.with..to films..well just about anywhere...beyond that simple beginning i am floundering..i haven't dated in...er..30 years?.. i am so in need of guidance.