[Hollylane]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I am going to bounce of your post Holly because I feel it's important and it isn't being talked about.


*I* personally if I was in a long distance relationship would not consent to my girl/boy keeping "my" cock.

For *ME* (notice I am talking about me, not anyone else but me) I would not be comfortable with my fuck buddy. partner.submissive.plaything.hook up. if they asked me to leave my cock or toys there. I would wonder why? I would be like um no, I would look at them and wonder why they had the need to keep something that is mine there. (this is different than toothbrushes, t-shirts or any other item that some folks need to be connected).


The reason I bring this up is because I'd like to keep this conversation *real* if I wanted to fuck, there is nothing that is going to stop me. Me leaving my cock at X's house isn't going to stop me from fucking if the urge rises up. Just because I left my cock at O's house is not going to deter me from sexy time. I can:

A. purchase another one

B. use my hands, mouth, or a banana if I want

C. I can use who I am with cock or toys

D. I may have other cocks at home to use


I don't know if for some people the "buy new stuf for me" is a security issue, a value issue, a trust issue, or they just really want a new cock stuff.


It's really a shame we can not have a conversation about the preferences of cock without having to shame those who do partake in one night stands, weekend fucky fucky time, went to Little Rock and got me some time, or any other kind of consentual adult relationship. We're adults as Toughy pointed out if you are going to replace all the toys I hope that these talks are being had BEFORE the actual fucky fucky, if not then I hope you plan a trip to the cock store so everyone is happy. I also hope that while people are getting to know one another the first thing one should be asking is are they tested because nothing ruins a good time like disease or two.


The myth that people who happen to like to fuck without having to be in a monogamous relationship are classless, disrespectful, dirty, dangerous needs to stop. I assure you I am disease free, OCD clean, am never without gloves, condom, damn, saran wrap, I am so sure of this I can put a money bet that my doctors bag is a safe sex haven compared to most people's idea or drawer of safe sex.

Just to be clear (not because I think that you are saying something different about my post, but so that there are no misunderstandings or assumptions about Gaige and I)...The post I made earlier, was purely in joyful fun...Gaige and I enjoy the playfulness in our relationship, both bold playfulness, and vague sexual innuendos.

There are no worries about who is in possession of one of Gaige's cocks. There is a level of trust between us that is amazing, and that we both love and value very much. One of the cocks was left here purely for convenience. We are just fine with Gaige's cocks being at both ends of the country, or all in the same place, just as long as one, or all of them, are where we are, when it is time to engage in some "sexy time" in the same zip code.

Incidentally, she also left behind for her convenience; pj's, a sweater, toiletries, and instant coffee (I may have asked her to leave the coffee behind, because I was worried she might enjoy her "coffee time" with someone else...J/k...lol).

Frankly, until we decide the time is right to make a responsible move into our own home, my home is her home, and her home is mine. So, leaving things behind, is sometimes just easier than paying extra baggage fees each time, or worrying about who's been stirring the contents of your luggage around in the airport.

In relationships, Gaige and I both want/are monogamous type people. However, we do not think that what other people want or do, is wrong, dirty, shameful, disrespectful, etc...Live and let live.