I think times have way changed and many attributes that used to be seen as "masculine" can apply to anyone now.
It really freaked me out when I realized I was a Lesbian and people kept telling me how feminine I am...growing up everyone was always all over me trying to get me to BE more feminine.
I like a partner who is not way set into being entirely masculine in every way. One, because we are both women and two, because in many ways even though I look pretty damn girly, I am not, especially emotionally and sexually.
Now, if you look at us on the outside, then yes we LOOK very traditionally boy/girl.
edited to add: I am in a relationship with a woman, I am not saying that everyone on this site is a woman, many are not.
