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Old 03-20-2013, 10:47 PM   #599
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Default What NOT to do in a relationship....

Don't lose who YOU are in who you are together. Have separate interests and activities and SOMEONE who understands, appreciates, and RESPECTS this.

Don't CHANGE who you are for that person. Don't be someone you are not or cannot be/become. We all strive to be the best versions of ourselves, but stay the natural course of your life. Row your own boat and hope they are on the same route and not prone to seasickness.

... But be willing to hold her hair out of the way and rub her back if she is.
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