and I LOVE the idea of the ashes becoming a tree. My brother and I have plots with our parents back in New York, on the border of Brooklyn and Queens. We have been talking about letting those plots go since I've been in California and he's been in Missouri and doing our own things. My thoughts are I would like to be cremated (I'm claustrophobic so the thought of NOT being dead in that box scares the hell out of me) and I would LOVE to be a tree!
In life I've lived as an oak and I've lived as a willow. Now I'll let the universe pick what I'll be next