[SleepyButch]

Originally Posted by BoSoxBoi

Hello everyone. I just wanted to introduce myself since I'm new to the forum. I'm really looking forward to meeting and talking with people on here.

Hi BoSoxBoi. Welcome to the planet. I assume you are a boston red socks fan? I won't hold that against you. lol... Hope you have fun here!

Originally Posted by tmbyfem

Hello all,

In keeping with the recent Easter holiday, I'm dusting off my account and coming back to life. I was quite active on an old forum but I've not been part of an on-line community since 2009, I've been too busy dealing with the challenges and exploring the wonders of life.

What brought me back is that while I have a fantastic circle of creative people in my life, including lots of gay men, I seem to be the token lesbian of the group, let alone b/f identified. So I'm dipping my toe back into the cyber pool and, with luck, maybe I'll meet someone, although I'm hesitant to do the long distance thing and would rather keep my options to within an hour's drive of San Diego in order to facilitate a real-time relationship. Cyber friendships however know no bounds.

Besides, Ciaran has persuaded me to attend the Reunion this year so I might as well get all social like, connect with old friends and new

So that's enough for now, ta!

Welcome back tmbyfem! Glad to have you back!!

Originally Posted by Anomaly

Hello all, thought I'd check in here since I'm new here. Let's see, you should ask someone what they drink before you ask them what they do, but what I do is work in a gay bar where I ask people what they drink all night long. Sometimes I go into workaholic mode and work 10 shifts a week, and people will tease me that they never let me go home, and I just have a cot in the basement of the bar, and I say "It's more like a filthy mattress, really."

But the truth is my dog, my 2 cats, and I have a big house to spread out in, and now that it's getting nice, and I'm down to normal work hours, I'm trying to find something to do with myself. I'm feeling more human (or animal) with every 1 degree rise in temperatures outside.

I live in a small town where sexuality and sexual dynamics are misunderstood, and this leads to all kinds of comic misadventures. I find myself explaining myself every day that I go out in public, so I thought I'd try spilling some ideas here, where we at least understand some basic things about butch/femme, such as NO I would not rather just be with a guy!

And, I don't know, maybe find someone sexy and masculine to flirt with. That'd be nice. My heels and I caused a traffic accident once, so I guess I'm kinda pretty. Haha, that was a good day. My shiny faux snake skin heels and I just kept walking away from the sounds of metal on metal. I laughed out loud. Is that so wrong?

Hello there Anomaly. Nice name. I too livid in the frigid north until about eight months ago now and I did not miss this past winter! Glad you found us and hope you have a lot of fun here!!