[SugarFemme]

My sister (Who is not typically the most sensitive person) has at times (Including today) made disparaging comments about "fat women" to me. It has always been followed up by, "I don't mean you" or "You are different". I usually ignore the comments and consider the source. But, todays comment was particularly personal to me because she was referring to a woman's "Big tits with no bra on". I could have easily been that woman. I have big tits and lots of times if I am wearing a baggy shirt and my shoulder is bothering me, I will wear no bra. She followed up her diatribe with the usual, "But, I don't mean you". Today I wanted because every time she has made fat comments that were not about me, in my heart they were. But, I am so blessed.....I can lose weight, or not. But hatred and ugliness are forever. Thank Goddess I am only fat!!!! LOL