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Originally Posted by Chancie
It's really bothering me that you used the expression 'freaking out'.
It may be that it's personal narrative style on your part, but
It's very dismissive.
It seems like an awkward choice when communicating your feelings and ideas about femme invisibility.
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I'm sorry you feel my word choice is dismissive. That happens to be the way that I talk, and I would also call myself out on "having a freak out" if I said something along the lines of "I'm sick to death of this group of people who are not me that don't realize this thing they find oppressive isn't half as bad as what I go through". I thought the entire photo was dismissive of an entire group of people, and it pissed me off so I said what I had to say.
Apparently I upset both you and Snow, and for that I am sorry.
This just reinforces to me why I never post or participate in BFP forums anymore. No matter what I say, or how carefully I word it, there are always people who will read insult in it. I hope that the conversation can continue, I think it's a valuable one, I'm just tired of having to defend myself constantly in this place where I thought I would feel safe.