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Originally Posted by Sparkle

I guard my free time closely and selfishly, it never feels I have enough and because of that I choose carefully where/when/why and with whom I spend it.

Similarly I have become selfish with my professional time, I juggle two half-time jobs, for half time salaries and prorated benefits -- but both employers expect full time results. I've learned to set my own goals and to hold back and not give (and give and give) my time beyond what is required to meet my goals.

I'm selfish with my friendship, I believe my relationships with friends are investments, that they require my care, my time, my energy and adaptability; and I only have so much of those things to give. I have a lot of aquaintanceships, and they can be very fun; but my real deep friendships are few, they are for life and they are very meaningful.

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