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Old 05-18-2013, 11:21 AM   #4529
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I'm not looking for advice or suggestions; I just want to share how I feel today.

I have lost almost 15% of my body weight, lowered my cholesterol more than 40 points, and I am no longer pre diabetic.

I feel great about my success, but

I still don't feel like fat is bad and thin is good and

I still don't believe in unhealthy unbalanced diets.

I am having a lot of feelings about the changes in my body.

More people are noticing me in public places, mostly men.

I am middle aged, and it's middle aged men who look over and look away.

Nobody's been aggressive, but I am aware of the attention.

I'm also feeling sad. I've had to get rid of a lot of clothing, and

I miss my pretty things. I only wore my pretty bathing suit once or twice, and

It's way too baggy on me.

I can hardly lift the contractor's black plastic bag of clothing that I have to bring to a thrift store.

I've always loved clothing, and I have always worn stylish outfits, my own style, I mean.

I have never been shy about wearing miniskirts and sleeveless tops and beautiful underthings.

I have spent a lot of time looking for clothing I like online, and

Now, I don't even know what size I wear.
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