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Old 06-24-2013, 11:25 PM   #10
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Lightbulb "T" and sexualiTy

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Originally Posted by rocky 781 View Post
Does anyone know or ever heard that taking T could change a persons sexual orientation.
I've heard this. There are plenty of debates and philosophies about it.

One trans* guy I know told me testosterone changed his sexual orientation from female-preferring (exclusively) to having (and acting on) attractions to both women and men. He swears up and down he had no sexual attraction to men prior to taking T. At all. Ever. He is very comfortable with his newfound sexuality, though.

I had another one tell me that he noticed himself having a random sexual thought about a man and was very disturbed. He hasn't had any others, but has since speculated that many straight cis guys going through puberty have had a sexual thought or two about another dude, even if brief.

Comfort in a new skin also may make some feel more free to explore all possibilities, as noted above.

In my experience, testosterone has helped give me the well-defined sexuality of a heterosexual male. I always loved women... I just love them that much more when I have an added shot of male biology. Testosterone has made me feel a new comfort in both asserting my boundaries and boldly stating what I want and enjoy. Looking and feeling more like my vision of self has been so beneficial to my sexual expression. I feel bonded to my body in ways I never did pre-T (frankly, I felt completely disconnected and now I see a hope of feeling otherwise) and I know it only gets more awesome from here.
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