Tru, I am a lesbian and a stone butch. When I am having sex it is lesbian sex.
I don't think there is any such thing as lesbian sex or heterosexual sex or anything other name that will describe everyone in a group, since we all have our own preferences, boundaries, etc.
You will find plenty of like-minded people here and people who may id or think differently than you that you can still be friends with.
It is always great to have lesbian topics discussed too. Welcome again to the site.