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Old 08-29-2013, 11:15 PM   #12
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I find this thread refreshing actually.
In my experience, I have found many butches do not enjoy this as part of the intamcy they are comfortable with.
I find it an honor if I am with a butch who will allow me to express love/lust/energy etc. this way.
It is also very erotic and exilerating to me to be able to explore my partner and see how excited I can get them . When I am not restricted in this area.

I can only speak for myself but I love to explore all areas of pleasure when it comes to pleasing a partner. If they allow that is.

But I have also realized that fewer butches seem to explore this option.
And again, in my own experience..It is usually the old school butches.

This does not apply to everyone I know.
I am one who usually does not speak out on intimate topics. But this one has crossedmy mind as well here and there.

Abother piece of thought;
For butches who have had issues allowing such because of masculine reasons..I have found that if this is done is such a way ..as to use it as an extension on a masculine level, then they also can enjoy it when normally it wouldn't be permitted.

I hope I wrote that correct...ha
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