[imperfect_cupcake]

Oh it's been chatted about before Texan. but the threads are probably burried and even though the majority of butches I meet actually *have* vaginas/cunts (I hate the word pussy, sorry, like some people hate the word cunt) along with having cocks, and are into their cunts being fucked, and their clit-cocks being sucked off, on line the word cock seems to appear more. I have been with quite a few who although don't enjoy being penetrated, they sure as hell enjoy me sucking their "flesh" cock off.

Lots of them enjoy me using a dildo, frottage, sucking, fisting and genital massage, all of which I love doing. I'm service orientated so I'm happy to give whatever it is they want.

I've been happy with certain types of stones (if I couldn't suck someone's clit-cock or flesh cock off for the rest of my life I would be devastated, that's my line). and I've been happy with TGButches who aren't stone but enjoy the inside pathway of their cocks stroked off.

If you have a root around in the past threads, you might find a few of these. Or I could be thinking of the old site, of course. But I do recall having this convo quite a few times on the forums. I think because the default setting on line is "cock" (which could mean inner cock [that ridge that swells up on the ventral/stomach side of the vagina], clit or dildo) it gets confusing.

I'm sorry you are haing trouble finding a girl who likes to be active (in the traditional meaning of that word active/passive/versatile nomers at web dating sites like gaydar girls).

It might be something you could bring up in a way during flirting rather than having to find out the hard way. It's not easy and it can scare the horses but I find it saves me a LOT of grief in the bedroom if I find out before hand if they are going to find me "too submissve" at times. cause if I have to have the "what do you want me to do"/"do what you want, I'm here for you"/"no really, what do you want me to do."/"I want you to do what *you* want to do"/"I'm serious, what would you -"

conversation one more time I'll pull my own hair out. two people orientated the same way doesn't work. even if one is a top and one is a bottom.

but yes, there are oodles of girls out there very willing to slide a bullet vibe up your ass and suck you off while fisting you into next week *coy feminine eyelash flutter*

and be girly about it.

It's just finding them. Join a local group through here? try OKCupid? there are some great sex questions asked on that site that can help orientate you to the right gals.

My profile is up there, if you want some help on setting it up take a look - lezbosushi. I'm not sure how you feel about internet dating but I'm finding it's the only way to meet my community here.