@Linus: On question number one, true on the "male promoted" verses male only products, I was trying to say that but it didn't come out right; your wording is much better lol
What you said about question 2 really does make me pause for a second. I really don't want anything about how I express my feelings or anything to do with it to change. Thanks for the input, I'm thinking I want to be cautious with that aspect, and do research on it. On question 3, very true, yeah it would suck if I had to experience everything lol.
@Dapperbutch: TG means third gender, and not transgender, right? I have not looked into third gender at all, maybe I should. And dang my wording was all crazy yesterday, I was such a mess-I only have my bachelors in psychology, so fortunately I still have a lot of time to work on myself. I was thinking in the futuristic sense, imagining having a femme client and messing up somehow. I don't think its a realistic fear, unless I'm sexist or something, that would not be good. I don't think I am though...I don't know, I'm still a mess. Your a gender therapist? Pretty cool. I have a therapist, but I don't think she understands, she's not specifically a gender therapist.
The muting of emotions is not comforting, but I've also never experienced it. That is a huge risk to me though. I really don't know how anyone can step away from the gender stuff when you're reminded every freakin day the second someone calls you ma'am or baby or any of that other crap, and anything else that goes along with being a female in society. I hate it. It's not just about social issues for me, its my own body as well. I don't know how to escape this gender stuff.
@Nadeest: thanks for responding! It kills me when you say you've been forced to where mens clothing...if I was ever forced into anything female related again I'd freak out. I'm glad you're able to hang in there. Its such an extreme for me, I piss a lot of people off with that. The server thing...what a nightmare! Dang I wish people would become more gender aware.
A gender therapist would be great, maybe I could find one that has a sliding scale or something, because my insurance won't cover mental related stuff.
Thanks to all of you for responding. I don't know how to reply back all neat and organized, but I definitely have some things to consider.
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