[moxie]

Originally Posted by softness

When I posted my question, I didnt want to be rescued...lol nor did I want any 12 year old to get tied to a tree and whacked. But I did see a few fellas appear ...which is a good thing.

So ... lets talk about first dates. I havent been on a first date in a few years. So I am kinda rusty.... I want to hear about your feelings, memories, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. What would be a turn off for you? What would be a green flag? What would you wear? ...anyone game to talk about this? Just so we have a conversation starter?

Well, I haven't been on a "first date" in years. Last few relationships I have been in went straight into relationships. I would love to just date again.

I would want all the butterflies and nervousness and talking for hours and not realizing how late it is. A turn off for me would be for the date to not let me get a word in. I am quiet and am comfortable with silence but let me say something when I want.

I don't know what I would wear...it would all depend on what the date entailed.

Too tired to talk about this in great length and intelligently but wanted to say something.