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Old 10-08-2013, 07:50 AM   #128
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I love accents as well. Certain South and Central American accents are my favorites. I feel them on a visceral level. And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful. Then there are things that a person I am attracted to can do to turn me on. My wife doing or saying something that I find particularly hot (which happens often really) works instantly but I doubt it would have the same effect if anyone else were doing/saying it. I guess she has the keys to the instant turn-on switch.
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